4 Gentle Strategies For Overcoming Addiction

Addiction is a serious problem for millions of people around the world, but addictions aren’t limited to cigarettes, drugs, and alcohol. People can become addicted to anything including food, computers, video games, and collecting animals. The TV show ‘My Strange Addiction’ features even stranger addictions like people who can’t stop eating paint, sand, and drywall.

It seems most people have struggled with addiction at some point in their lives, but not everyone gets the help they need. Some people can recover from addiction with minimal support while others can’t.

If quitting your addiction cold turkey is too harsh, try these 4 gentle strategies:

1. Don’t define success too tightly

If you want to recover from an addiction you’ve been struggling with for a long time, the first thing you need to do is avoid defining success. Most people would define a successful recovery by not engaging in the addiction ever again. However, breaking an addiction doesn’t always mean you:

  • Won’t ever participate in that activity again. For example, people break the addiction to sugar all the time, and once the addiction is gone, they can eat sugar in moderation.
  • Won’t relapse. Recovery is often a long process that can take years and will probably include several relapses. By defining success as not engaging in your addiction, you’re putting yourself in a position to feel like a failure when you inevitably relapse along the way. You’ll see the relapse as a failure rather than part of a process that isn’t complete.

2. Focus on eliminating the addiction, not the action

Most people attempting to recover from addiction put too much emphasis on eliminating the action they’re addicted to, and not enough emphasis on the addiction itself. In most cases, the addiction is the problem and not the action. For example, drinking alcohol a few times a year isn’t a problem, but drinking it every day is. People who drink alcohol every day not only damage their bodies, but are at high risk for driving while intoxicated, which puts others at risk.

The same applies to cigarettes. Say you’ve been battling an addiction to smoking tobacco cigarettes, but haven’t had a cigarette in three years. Say you go out with friends and give in to the urge to smoke a cigarette. If your recovery has been focused on avoiding the action in order to feel successful (smoking a cigarette), you’re going to feel like a failure by having one smoke. Even if you never touch another cigarette for three more years, having that one smoke will make you feel as if you’ve failed.

What you won’t realize is smoking one cigarette in three years doesn’t make you an addict. If you smoke one cigarette by choice, but your compulsion to continue to smoke regularly is gone, you haven’t failed. You’ve actually proven to yourself you’ve succeeded in breaking your addiction. Once you’ve broken the addiction, you have a choice to participate in the action or not.

3. Allow yourself to mess up

Breaking addiction isn’t easy. You’re not going to get the result by snapping your fingers. Don’t give yourself a free pass, but don’t beat yourself up when you’re struggling. For instance, if you’re trying to lose weight and find yourself sabotaging your efforts, start over. Even if you have to start over fifty times, just start over.

Don’t give in to the mind chatter that tells you that you’re a failure, or you’re never going to make it. Entertaining those thoughts will only make you feel justified in going back to old habits. Get back on that horse and keep riding.

4. Find something you can pour your life into

Part of recovering from addiction, especially for drugs and alcohol, is coping with the loss of friends. You can’t continue to hang out with the same people who will only tempt you back into old habits. If you’re not ready to make new friends, find something you can pour your heart and soul into. Find a charitable cause you can volunteer for, or create a resource online for people who are also struggling. Post on addiction recovery discussion forums and support other people. Keep your mind focused on other people and give it your all.

Give yourself time to recover fully

You won’t recover from addiction overnight. It might take weeks, months, or years. Take your recovery one day at a time. Commit to sobriety newly each day, and the task will feel less overwhelming.

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Published by Nishitha

I am done with my Physiotherapy Graduation. And I always try to share Health and technology tips with people. Apart from Physiotherapy and being a tech savvy, I do explore more on Technology side and I keep sharing my findings with wider audience.

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